Understanding the hidden dangers of a boyfriend’s love
First, absolute self-psychology.
This man regards whether the lover he is looking for is beneficial to his “future” as the only unbreakable condition.
He asked his girlfriend to show the “advantage” from time to time and bring him some benefits.
Once his expectations are not met or not reached, he will get angry and even feel that you are losing to him.
Second, logical error association.
Such men often appear as associative and suspicious.
He generally values love, but has a narrow understanding and is very sensitive to the actions of lovers.
Once his girlfriend does something he doesn’t understand or is unhappy with, he will “think about it” and find the evidence that you don’t agree with him.
Third, non-emotional immigration.
This kind of man evaluation, when treating his girlfriend, has no sympathy, and does not place himself in a position to give evaluation and understanding.
Especially when the girlfriend is in a situation where she needs to empathize with her, she winces or ignores.
He can only rejoice with you and not with you.
Fourth, the wrong contrast mentality.
Such men often distinguish his strengths from his girlfriend’s weaknesses, or his girlfriend’s weaknesses and those of others.
When this kind of man begins to associate with you, he can quickly discover your advantages and appreciate it very much, and your relationship will heat up.
But if he finds that the advantage in you is so inconspicuous, he will be indifferent to you, and this indifference often makes you elusive or even a temptation, making you more mysterious.
Fifth, adapt to excitement.
This kind of man generally likes fashion and feels sharp, but lacks autonomy and self-confidence. Individual consciousness is controlled by external trends. He especially likes trendy women.
He has outstanding appearance, hairstyles, clothing and other appearance images, and is very happy to invest in his girlfriend in this regard.
However, once you fail to adapt to his “aesthetic” requirements, he will suffocate.
When you find that your boyfriend has any of these mentalities, don’t take it lightly.
Of course, strictly speaking, any man will more or less have one or more of these mentalities.
There is no need to panic, and there is no need to “broken off” as soon as you find it, so that you will always find a good partner.
How to master this “degree” lies in the fact that you really love him and do not prevent you from talking openly with your concerns and let him realize the danger of this hidden danger.
If you are new friends and you are not yet deep in feelings, you can also talk to him to see the effect.
If you don’t think it’s necessary, just break the diplomatic ties.
However, take either approach.
One thing to grasp is that your judgment of him is correct and comprehensive, otherwise, taking for granted and taking for granted will bring you life-long pain.